Woman calls out sister-in-law for fake allergy at Thanksgiving dinner, she demands to go home early but husband makes them stay for dinner, causing family dispute

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    AITA For Laughing About a Pretend Allergy?

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    Parents gave up wanting responsibilities for Thanksgiving meal about five years ago. My house is big enough to host and I
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    enjoy cooking so for the past three years the duties have fallen to me.
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    I make the turkey, the stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy and rolls. Others bring sides and things like chips and drinks.
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    This year, my brother and his wife came into town early and stayed over. Thanksgiving, mid-morning my sister-in-law wanders into the
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    kitchen while I'm making stuffing. She sees my pile of bread crumbs/celery/onion/sausage in a bowl and me sautéing
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    mushrooms. She says, "What are THOSE for?" I told her they were for the stuffing. She put her hands on her hips and said,
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    freaking out, "You can't put mushrooms in the stuffing. I'm allergic!"
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    I was stupefied. I said, "When did this happen?" And she just looked at me like I was an idiot so
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    I said, "When did you discover you're allergic to mushrooms?"
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    She scoffed and said, "I've always been allergic." Now the thing is, when I make my stuffing I like
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    things to be well incorporated, and I always chop the mushrooms small after I sauté
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    them. So they're not actually apparent in the mix as mushrooms among the other ingredients.
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    I burst out in a laugh and said, "Well, that's interesting, because
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    you weren't allergic last year. And you weren't allergic the year before."
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    She asked me what I meant, and I told her I'd been making stuffing like this every year she's eaten it, and furthermore she's raved over
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    Thanksgiving
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    it, and had zero allergic reaction. So maybe she's not allergic. Maybe she just thinks she doesn't like mushrooms.
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    She got pissed and went to my brother to tell him, and she told him she wanted to leave, but he
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    wanted to stay. So she spent the entire rest of the day shooting daggers at me with her eyes.
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    They were supposed to stay through the weekend but they left Thanksgiving night. I confided in my mom and my sister
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    yesterday and they kind of chuckled and said it's not my fault, but my brother texted me this morning that I could have
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    just not used the mushrooms, and that I made his wife feel stupid for no reason. I maintain I didn't make her feel anything. AITAH?
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    Witty-Stock-4913 • 10h ago NTA. You pointed out you've used the same recipe. If she felt stupid, that was entirely
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    herself making her feel stupid. You said nothing whatsoever to make her feel that way.

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